Learn it, Know it: Osmolality (Lube Science)

There is a lot of misinformation out there about lubricants. I still hear people telling me silicone lube is not latex condom safe1, That glycerine is a sugar that causes yeast infections2, and I could sit here and give you… Continue Reading


We live in a heteronormative world- if you’re not screaming out your gender, your sexuality, etc. in one way or another, people assume you’re cisgendered and straight. As social creatures, we’ve created complicated sets of signifiers- present in our media,… Continue Reading

PostModernist Sexuality: PoMoSexuals, edited by Carol Queen and Lawrence Schimel

When I attended Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2014, I bought a few amazing books from the person manning the Red Emma’s Book Collective (they’re awesome, and I hope to visit them and some other awesome places when I eventually visit Baltimore… Continue Reading

From One, Many.

E Pluribus Unum- From Many, One. You see this high-falootin’ Latin on every piece of currency here in the US, and it’s a cool democratic ideal that we’re really bad at keeping to, but that’s not the point of this… Continue Reading

#StrapWeek: Taming those Big and Beastly Dildos

I made an awesome discovery the other day when pondering the issue of harnessing large and oddly shaped dildos, like the ones Bad Dragon makes. I remember when I first got my medium size, medium density Bad Dragon Breeder- I… Continue Reading

Anal Eaze: Never, Ever

You should never, ever, ever use Anal Eaze or other such products. If you’re unfamiliar with it, Anal Eaze is a cherry flavored cream or gel that is used to numb the anal sphincter to make anal sex “easier.” Anal… Continue Reading